A lot of people have a deep desire to start an adult nursing relationship, but they will never allow themselves to experience this amazing lifestyle because they are afraid of what other people will think. It is a shame that this is the case and it is all too common in ANR and many other areas of life.
It is true that adult breastfeeding is not yet accepted by the mainstream, and who knows if it ever will be. Many people look at it as kinky and perverted and that will probably not change soon. Throughout history and even today you will find examples of things that some people find offensive, while others find to be enjoyable and a normal part of life. Examples: sex outside of marriage, masturbating, oral sex, anal sex, homosexuality, the list goes on and on.
There are two different ways you can approach this with breastfeeding. One way is to face it head on and try to take on the cause. You can try to convince the people around you that there is nothing wrong with what you are doing. People coming out and spreading the word may help the ANR community long term. But for most people this approach will be nothing but exhausting and discouraging.
I think the best way to approach your ANR is the same way you probably do with other intimate activities. What goes on between you and your intimate partner is none of anyone’s business except for you and your partner. A big part of intimacy is that it is just between the two of you and nobody else.
You can even use this to your advantage to increase the intimacy and bond between you and your partner. This is something that is unique to the two of you. Your time spent together breastfeeding is when you and your partner enter a world that is only known the the two of you. It’s that one thing that you have together that not even your closest friends know about.